Oh wow. Well I think it's incredibly callous and not at all dark humor, but since you seem intractable on the post, I will address Glu:
Dear developers, if you take up this theme to use in game, you will really be upsetting people and a line will definitely have been crossed. The disagrees outweigh the agrees and half were there from the get go before I even said anything.
@Rumpelstilzchen Well, I really tried to comofort you with my words, but it seems like it headed the wrong way. That's all I can do. My sympathies are with you.
Perhaps removing the suggestion would be an idea, just so that Glu doesn’t mistakenly think it’s an option...although the disagrees would indicate that people don’t like the suggestion 🤷🏻♀️
@Savagekkh Don't worry, I requested the deletion of these posts because I respect your opinion. I tried to explain mine, but it was not accepted. Tolerance needs to begin on both sides.
@cherrey you can edit the body of your own post, and if you do, I will replace my text with "thank you"
I'm not intolerant. I almost never say anything to forum members, unless its something really upsetting. This was really upsetting on a visceral level and I thought I expressed that enough in my first post. I hear you when you say it is dark humor, but really there was no actual humor in it. I didn't want a huge back and forth. That's why I turned to addressing Glu.
I’m not personally getting involved but I do need to say if you feel offended by someone’s post, don’t call them out on a public thread. Just simply privately message them and hit the disagree button on the post. It was not a post that was meant to be offensive,@Cherrey was just suggesting that theme, to use our new “black dye” so if you do feel offended just privately message her and the situation would have went differently.
@Rumpelstilzchen There is no need to attack someone else in this context. cnntarr expressed her opinion and she has every right to do it. Let me remind you we are on a forum. I'm ok with people calling me out because of this issue, but your latest post regarding cnntarr ist just disrespectful.
Not sure where Rumpel was attacking someone? So are you saying everyone can express their opinions except her? No. She can say what she want, as can you. I could almost say you’re attacking her too, since your post is very personal.
There is no need at all to take this conversation even further. Your post was inapropriate, you acknowledged that, and apologized. Now we move on.
Stop trying to be involved in everything that happens.
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I find PMs have an intrusive and shady air about them. I never use them to react. I don't like to start personal conversations with people I don't know. I have always replied at the source and said things out in the open, by choice. You are welcome to disagree with my methods of communication, of course.
Ok now this is getting personal... @Rumpelstilzchen I don’t know what got you in this mood but it’s absurd. I was not telling ANYONE what to do I was recommending not to call someone out publicly but I guess that’s what your about.
The problem in this case is a familiar one on this forum. Someone makes a 'mistake' and other people keep picking on this person. The same thing happened to Carol Davida and she left. I'm ok with communicating criticism, but you have to let go at some point. I already apologized to everyone who felt offened.
I’m not sure that jumping in and then calling someone moody and absurd is helping. The mods always ask us not to intervene so hopefully this subject will just drop
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They probably already left it as is, but someone decided to play mod and bring up the issue again. Everyone has the right to voice their opinions. Words like "picking on" is redundant in this case, and especially in Carol's case.
I agree with Savage regarding PMs, just earlier I received a disrespectful and aggressive PM out of nowhere. Baffled me.
Good lord. The conversation was over and fairly brief, and then this new girl comes to tell me how to post when I have been here for years. Express your opinions. Jump on my back. I don't care. But you can't act victimized. We are adults. I will address you all as adults. There isn't victimization going on here. If you didn't want discourse, you could have stopped replying. And the notion that one side can continue to reply and the other can not, is absurd.
"This new girl" sounds incredibly rude. Just because you've been here longer than her doesn't mean she's any less important than you. You may not have meant it that way but the way it was worded is disrespectful
@ValerieGray Upon rereading it, I can see where it looks rude. Sorry, I didnt mean for that to be an insult. I meant new to the conversation, actually. I already told her she has the right to her opinion and I welcome dissent. I only meant to mention I had replied because I have been here for forever and am not new to forum etiquette, that this is a choice of style. I don't know if she knows whether I'm new or have been here for years.
I'll probably be unpopular for this but I feel like I need to say it. I'm in no way trying to defend her as I completely understand why people are upset at @Cherrey theme suggestion, but I think it's a bit much to ask her to remove the post. Although I do agree that it was in very poor taste, she made it clear that she intended no offence and apologised for it so did it really need to escalate this far. I just really can't stand when people try to dictate what other people can and can't say on an open forum and I know all too well how much it sucks feeling like you have no freedom of speech. Obviously there are limits and lines that shouldn't be crossed but I don't think a simple SYS suggestion (even a not thought through and insensitive one) is so terrible that it needs to be removed entirely. Aren't the disagrees and posts after explaining how it's insensitive not enough?
I'm also tired of reading through threads and seeing so many times where the original post has been deleted and now there's just a "nvm", "-", "sorry", "deleted" etc. Whether it's removed because of asking a question that seems obvious afterwards, saying something and getting a few disagrees, or whatever other reason, it's very confusing and frustrating reading through the thread and not knowing what the issue was and what the heck the people who wrote responses are referring to. It's like giving people a book to read that a few previous readers took a dislike to a certain section so ripped it out....nobody else afterwards can understand the whole story and its flipping annoying!
Can't people just edit their posts and put in bold at the top that they made a mistake and to disregard the rest of the post or something without actually entirely removing it so everyone else isn't left thinking what the hell did they originally say. Can't everyone just express their opinions, agree/disagree, discuss it and then move the heck on without things being deleted, it turning into taking sides or claiming you're being bullied bs.
None of this was aimed at one particular person btw and I intended no offense to anybody either but if you want to get mad at me for getting involved then so be it. I'm sorry it's such a long rant though, I just didn't sign up for this kind of stuff and it's actually ruining the forum for me so I had to say something.
I could be wrong, but I believe people have been editing/deleting comments because the question or issue has been resolved and it’s not necessary for other people reading later to comment. That’s just my take on it.
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LMAO @yezx. I meant edit to remove everything or change it to nvm, or something like that. Now I’m going to watch how many of your posts are edited 😂😂😂
This is a forum for us to express and share our opinions, and we can all be mature and civil about what we agree and disagree with. We don’t have to go private about it if we think something is in bad taste, imo this is the whole point of the forum. Additionally, the act of publicly letting someone know about why their comment was in bad taste allows not only the original commenter, but also others, to learn what is and isn’t acceptable.
Aside from this, I was going to suggest that a fantasy theme would be fun, I would love to dress up as an elven princess or something. Sadly, I don’t think we have a lot in the closet for this, but I can dream
I get that there's many different reasons why people remove posts, I just personally don't think it's necessary 99% of the time. It just makes things weird when reading through threads and seeing responses to a post that no longer exists and trying to figure out what was originally said isn't always easy lol. It would just make a lot more sense to me to simply edit in a disclaimer at the top saying "resolved", "wrong thread", "ignore this" etc, but still leave in the original text so people know not to respond but also aren't left thinking wth did they say. Maybe I'm just weird and it doesn't bother anybody else though 🤷🤣
It’s done to prevent an issue from dragging on. Once it is dealt with there is no need for people that log in hours later to read and feel a need to comment, which “revives” an issue that has been resolved. Actually in the past, posts were removed by moderators so now a days you see a lot more than in the past 😁
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Dear developers, if you take up this theme to use in game, you will really be upsetting people and a line will definitely have been crossed. The disagrees outweigh the agrees and half were there from the get go before I even said anything.
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I'm not intolerant. I almost never say anything to forum members, unless its something really upsetting. This was really upsetting on a visceral level and I thought I expressed that enough in my first post. I hear you when you say it is dark humor, but really there was no actual humor in it. I didn't want a huge back and forth. That's why I turned to addressing Glu.
There is no need at all to take this conversation even further. Your post was inapropriate, you acknowledged that, and apologized. Now we move on.
Stop trying to be involved in everything that happens.
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Yeah as I said, you apologized, now let it go.
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I agree with Savage regarding PMs, just earlier I received a disrespectful and aggressive PM out of nowhere. Baffled me.
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I'm also tired of reading through threads and seeing so many times where the original post has been deleted and now there's just a "nvm", "-", "sorry", "deleted" etc. Whether it's removed because of asking a question that seems obvious afterwards, saying something and getting a few disagrees, or whatever other reason, it's very confusing and frustrating reading through the thread and not knowing what the issue was and what the heck the people who wrote responses are referring to. It's like giving people a book to read that a few previous readers took a dislike to a certain section so ripped it out....nobody else afterwards can understand the whole story and its flipping annoying!
Can't people just edit their posts and put in bold at the top that they made a mistake and to disregard the rest of the post or something without actually entirely removing it so everyone else isn't left thinking what the hell did they originally say. Can't everyone just express their opinions, agree/disagree, discuss it and then move the heck on without things being deleted, it turning into taking sides or claiming you're being bullied bs.
None of this was aimed at one particular person btw and I intended no offense to anybody either but if you want to get mad at me for getting involved then so be it. I'm sorry it's such a long rant though, I just didn't sign up for this kind of stuff and it's actually ruining the forum for me so I had to say something.
#MakeTSfairOrREMOVEIT
#ListenToYourCustomers
#NoNeedToBeShady
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#MakeTSfairOrREMOVEIT
#ListenToYourCustomers
#NoNeedToBeShady
Additionally, the act of publicly letting someone know about why their comment was in bad taste allows not only the original commenter, but also others, to learn what is and isn’t acceptable.
Aside from this, I was going to suggest that a fantasy theme would be fun, I would love to dress up as an elven princess or something. Sadly, I don’t think we have a lot in the closet for this, but I can dream
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