Exactly the same thing happened to me & I'm married. Funnily enough I just kept trying & eventually it worked. I closed the app down completely on the iphone (double click on the home button, a panel of apps will appear at the bottom of the screen, click the red (-) on the top left corner of the app)
If neither one of those work for you try selecting your spouse for date at a dating destination & not clicking the white speech bubble & leave the building. Go back in a minute after you left
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If neither one of those work for you try selecting your spouse for date at a dating destination & not clicking the white speech bubble & leave the building. Go back in a minute after you left